SELF TAUGHT.

Have you ever wondered why girls don't get offended when their hair gets pulled on during sex? My theory on the subject is that they see it as a gesture of endearment. Watch nature shows when mother lions take their young by the neck. The young do not squirm with discomfort. They go along with it. It is very instinctual. It is wired into our system. It may look offensive but it is actually very natural.

The method is very simple. Take a big chunk of hair closest to the neck. Make a tight grip and pull firmly. [Do not pull hair from the top of the head ever!] It is important that the grip is firm. This will subconciously signal to the girl that she is safe in your hands.

I noticed right away that Jen was doing it all wrong. She was being flimsy about it. I guided her hand and showed her how to do it correctly. The girl[her name escapes me at the moment] responds to it in a positive way. You can clearly see in her face that she is enjoying it.

Next week, we're exploring another related subject.